Playing well with others is important - not being too flashy just keeping good time and of course coming up with cool beats. A good snare drum kick drum high hat. Just getting good at the hand feet coordination.
Jazz can be so serious no sense of humor.
I never had a cool older brother or sister to turn me on to cool music. I had...
We must return optimism to our parenting. To focus on the joys not the hassles the love not the disappointments the common sense not the complexities.