Playing well with others is important - not being too flashy just keeping good time and of course coming up with cool beats. A good snare drum kick drum high hat. Just getting good at the hand feet coordination.
Jazz can be so serious no sense of humor.
I never had a cool older brother or sister to turn me on to cool music. I had...
I think steak is the ultimate comfort food and if you're going out for one that isn't the time to scrimp on calories or quality.