If there is a gay uniform the differences are in how each man coordinates the details: the brand and cut of the jeans the design of belts and boots the haircut the number and size of earrings.
Coming out involves varying degrees of difficulty that are affected by class...
Design must seduce shape and perhaps more importantly evoke an emotional...
Whatever women do they must do twice as well as men to be half as good. Luckily this is not difficult.