It's never been an issue for me - I don't want to go on a diet I don't want to eat a Caesar salad with no dressing why would I do that? I ain't got time for this just be happy and don't be stupid. If I've got a boyfriend and he loves my body then I'm not worried.
If you have a level of expectation in your life that you have to be a quote-unquote star whatever that means you might be setting yourself up for failure.
