Of two pleasures if there be one which all or almost all who have experience of both give a decided preference irrespective of any feeling of moral obligation to prefer it that is the more desirable pleasure.
As for charity it is a matter in which the immediate effect on the persons...
It evolved from my experience in the fifties growing up during the McCarthy...
My original inspiration was my mom: a few years after the death of my dad she started dating one my teachers!