There are some things you only learn through experience.
I was lucky enough when it came to sports and work ethic to be taught some...
It evolved from my experience in the fifties growing up during the McCarthy...
Happiness is like a cat If you try to coax it or call it it will avoid you it will never come. But if you pay not attention to it and go about your business you'll find it rubbing against your legs and jumping into your lap.
