A few years back when my style was 'punk grandma ' I picked up an amazing pair of sandals - orthopaedic ones with really thick soles. I've given them away to a friend now because these days my look is more '1980s substitute teacher gone wild.'
I feel sorry... for people who've had skinny privilege and then have it taken...
It's amazing that something only an atom thick can be an impenetrable...
If you do not wish a man to do a thing you had better get him to talk about it for the more men talk the more likely they are to do nothing else.