I try to learn from the past but I plan for the future by focusing exclusively on the present. That's were the fun is.
If you're interested in 'balancing' work and pleasure stop trying to balance...
I always felt like my future was at stake every time I stepped on stage and...
Since it's based on my parents it's more emotionally close to me than some of my more surreal plays. And then I like the balance of the comic and the sad. It should play as funny but you should care about the characters and feel sad for them.