God lends a helping hand to the man who tries hard.
What is there more kindly than the feeling between host and guest?
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
But I can only take so much TV because there is so much advice. I find people will preach about virtually anything - your diet how to live your life how to improve your golf. The lot. I have always had a thing against the Mister Know-It-Alls.