Only God Himself fully appreciates the influence of a Christian mother in the molding of character in her children.
Read the Bible. Work hard and honestly. And don't complain.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
Each of us has an inner dream that we can unfold if we will just have the courage to admit what it is. And the faith to trust our own admission. The admitting is often very difficult.