It's God's will for you to live in prosperity instead of poverty. It's God's will for you to pay your bills and not be in debt.
We were old sinners - but when we came to Christ we are not sinners anymore.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
I would say that the surest measure of a man's or a woman's maturity is the harmony style joy and dignity he creates in his marriage and the pleasure and inspiration he provides for his spouse.