I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do because I notice it always coincides with their own desires.
I don't want to die as long as I can work the minute I can not I want to go.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
There is a common theme though in the stories I have told which are usually associations of characters or families that are formed outside of a family circle.