Your belief in God is merely an escape from your monotonous stupid and cruel life.
Religion is the frozen thought of man out of which they build temples.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
As a dad I'm emotionally dedicated but I'm not 'figuring out their life plans'. But of course as I'm telling them about the rights of wrongs I'm thinking back to what I was like at their age.