If I were to say 'God why me?' about the bad things then I should have said 'God why me?' about the good things that happened in my life.
Trust has to be earned and should come only after the passage of time.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
These groups within a society can he distinguished according as to whether like an army or an orchestra they function as a single body or whether they are united merely to defend their common interests and otherwise function as separate individuals.