When I told the people of Northern Ireland that I was an atheist a woman in the audience stood up and said 'Yes but is it the God of the Catholics or the God of the Protestants in whom you don't believe?
Men get laid but women get screwed.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill.