It's always good to be underestimated.
If you're interested in 'balancing' work and pleasure stop trying to balance...
There's no regret. You can't regret. I mean I've felt regret but I've also...
I used to read five psalms every day - that teaches me how to get along with God. Then I read a chapter of Proverbs every day and that teaches me how to get along with my fellow man.