Yes women and men have to be open to love because if we're not open then there's no way for us to find happiness. But you can be open to it and still have no control over when it's going to happen.
I don't think it's possible to have a wedding without it being stressful!
On a soap happiness never lasts for very long!
Woman or more precisely put perhaps marriage is the representative of life with which you are meant to come to terms.