I grew up in an abusive home and was told on a daily basis by my father that I would never amount to anything and that I looked like a boy.
People identify with me - everyone does - African American women Caucasian...
Imagine if you had baseball cards that showed all the performance stats for...
Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes you feel most deeply and vitally alive along with which comes the inner voice which says 'This is the real me ' and when you have found that attitude follow it.