It's not a bad thing for a writer not to feel at home. Writers - we're much more comfortable at parties standing in the corner watching everybody else having a good time than we are mingling.
This is a work of fiction. All the characters in it human and otherwise are...
Imagine if you had baseball cards that showed all the performance stats for...
You don't want your jewelry to make you look fat. A lot of what's out there now does - you just wind up looking like a Christmas tree.
