They have a kind of Bob Hope and Bing Crosby thing going on.
I've never crashed a wedding. When I was a kid I of course used to crash...
If you've never felt that you quite got a hold of it you just feel that...
One of the enduring problems with certain societies in the world - and this is certainly true of a lot of places in the Middle East - is that the capacity for self-governance and self-organizing just isn't there. It has to do with history.