I hope you will no longer accuse me of a lack of delicacy. as I now count on your understanding.
The real art of conducting consists in transitions.
If you've never felt that you quite got a hold of it you just feel that...
I can't grill vegetables shellfish or steaks without tongs. Don't bother with those long-handled grilling tongs normally found in the BBQ section of your home store. Get intimate with your grill and opt for the regular stainless steel tongs.