I hope I can help guys come out and say 'All right dude I got a manicure... and I liked it.'
Trust me if I were gay I'd be getting more action than I'm getting now.
If you've never felt that you quite got a hold of it you just feel that...
If you haven't found it yet keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart you'll know when you find it. And like any great relationship it just gets better and better as the years roll on.