You are not angry with people when you laugh at them. Humor teaches tolerance.
At a dinner party one should eat wisely but not too well and talk well but...
Humor results when society says you can't scratch certain things in public...
I've learnt that through life you just get on with it. You're going to meet a lot of dishonest people along the line and you say good luck to them. I hope they live in comfort. Then I start sticking more pins in their effigies.