The surest route to breeding jealousy is to compare. Since jealousy comes from feeling less than another comparisons only fan the fires.
What we used to say was whoever had the bow tie got to lead the band. There...
It scares you: all the noise the rattling the shaking. But the look on everybody's face when you're finished and packing it's the best smile in the world and there's nobody hurt and the well's under control.
