Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely willingly and without expectation. We don't love to be loved we love to love.
If I don't have wisdom I can teach you only ignorance.
At the end of the day you know love does not happen between two perfect...
I wrote the song For A Dancer for a friend of mine who died in a fire. He was in the sauna in a house that burned down so he had no idea anything was going on. It was very sad.