Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry the philosophy which does...
At the end of the day you know love does not happen between two perfect...
A good leader can engage in a debate frankly and thoroughly knowing that at the end he and the other side must be closer and thus emerge stronger. You don't have that idea when you are arrogant superficial and uninformed.