Well love is insanity. The ancient Greeks knew that. It is the taking over of a rational and lucid mind by delusion and self-destruction. You lose yourself you have no power over yourself you can't even think straight.
Men's need to dominate women may be based in their own sense of marginality...
At the end of the day you know love does not happen between two perfect...
If you cannot work with love but only with distaste it is better that you should leave your work.
