Many women cut back what had to be done at home by redefining what the house the marriage and sometimes what the child needs. One woman described a fairly common pattern: I do my half. I do half of his half and the rest doesn't get done.
Tobey's a mellow cool guy. He's just a good guy. I know that's not the answer you want and I don't mean that as the political thing to say but he's a nice guy.
