I became a mom at 37 and having a child has been an emancipation for me.
There are older men with younger women but you don't see a lot of older women...
My mom is in the navy and my dad works for the army but I never called them...
Whether you've seen angels floating around your bedroom or just found a ray of hope at a lonely moment choosing to believe that something unseen is caring for you can be a life-shifting exercise.