I think my mom put it best. She said 'Little girls soften their daddy's hearts.'
There's more to life than movies.
My mom is in the navy and my dad works for the army but I never called them...
It's just an unhealthy way to approach something trying to outdo your last thing. You've gotta trust evolution you've gotta trust that the bar is moving that you don't need to force the bar. It'll just happen.