My mom is a very warm typical sort of Jewish-mother type. And my dad has a somewhat um different personality.
My mom is in the navy and my dad works for the army but I never called them...
It's useless to try and make rhyme or reason of it because one guy thinks one thing and the other guy sees a whole other thing. So I try not to take them too seriously. Lately I have them screened so I only read the positive ones.
