No you're not allowed to be bossy when you're married. You have to learn compromise and compassion and patience.
I want the big drama. I always said I don't want a wedding I want a parade.
I've done an awful lot of stuff that's a monument to public patience.
It's learning how to negotiate to keep both sides happy - whether it's for a multi-million dollar contract or just which show to watch on TV that determines the quality and enjoyment of our lives.