The fact my relationship with my son is so good makes me forgiving of my father and also appreciative.
I think people that have fear that 'Oh if I have a kid I won't be able to do...
I feel an intense intimacy with those who have this loathing interest in me....
The first book I wrote was The Bride Price which was a romantic book but my husband burnt the book when he saw it. I was the typical African woman I'd done this privately I wanted him to look at it approve it and he said he wouldn't read it.
