We run into some pretty tough arguments sometimes but the idea is that at the end of the day my wife and I realize that we'll always be holding each other's hand. This is a lifelong relationship and after 12 years she hasn't gotten rid of me yet.
What I do is not rocket science but I sure do love it.
I feel an intense intimacy with those who have this loathing interest in me....
I have learned that to be with those I like is enough.