I think that the fact that a relationship becomes public is a bit of a bummer. Because it can distract from the real reason why you're together which is that you just like each other.
You know it's possible for two humans to be in a relationship without there...
I feel an intense intimacy with those who have this loathing interest in me....
That is the essence of science: ask an impertinent question and you are on the way to a pertinent answer.