Psychology is as important as substance. If you treat people with respect they will go out of their way to accommodate you. If you treat them in a patronizing way they will go out of their way to make your life difficult.
Well first of all we now have everybody with the exception of India...
Lately I did a film called All I Want for Christmas and it was well received....
When you're out grocery shopping for your family maybe you can put a can of cat or dog food in your cart and bring it to an animal relief center.