Your private life is your private life and you keep it to yourself. You get more respect that way.
I may be the prat in the hat that's cool but I drive an Aston Martin DB5.
Lately I did a film called All I Want for Christmas and it was well received....
One can't relive one's life. Forgiveness is not what's difficult one's always too ready to forgive. And it does no good that's obvious.