Your private life is your private life and you keep it to yourself. You get more respect that way.
I may be the prat in the hat that's cool but I drive an Aston Martin DB5.
Lately I did a film called All I Want for Christmas and it was well received....
Part of what we love about poetry is the fact that it seems ancient that it has an authority of ancient language and ancient form and that it's timeless that it reaches back.