You have to let it all hang out let go of the ideas that were more comfortable and embrace some of the sadness in your life.
I was just learning to play guitar when Tracy Chapman came out. She wrote...
I had never felt so lonely and so sad in my entire life.
Old hands soil it seems whatever they caress but they too have their beauty when they are joined in prayer. Young hands were made for caresses and the sheathing of love. It is a pity to make them join too soon.