I think coldness is chic among writers and particularly ironic coldness. What is absolutely not allowable is sadness. People will do anything rather than to acknowledge that they are sad.
One should never be sexually involved with anyone one genuinely cares for. A...
I had never felt so lonely and so sad in my entire life.
Mainly what I learned from Buddy... was an attitude. He loved music and he taught me that it shouldn't have any barriers to it.