Women with money and women in power are two uncomfortable ideas in our society.
I think a young woman's relationship with her father is really important.
The whole system of society tells you what to do.
My ace in the hole as a human being used to be my capacity for remembering birthdays. I worked at it. Whenever I made a new friend I made a point of finding out his or her birthday early on and I would record it in my Filofax calendar.