In virtually every Western society in the 1960s there was a moral revolution an abandonment of its entire traditional ethic of self-restraint.
Focus on the mind and the soul. Read. Study. Enrol in a course of lectures....
The whole system of society tells you what to do.
Every human being on this earth is born with a tragedy and it isn't original sin. He's born with the tragedy that he has to grow up... a lot of people don't have the courage to do it.