You don't realize how much you use your credit card not even to buy things. It's a card you get so you can navigate society.
When you have kids you instantly feel that you do not want to do them wrong....
The whole system of society tells you what to do.
I think it's an amazing quality to be able to roll with the punches and not be totally ruined as a person because life's been rough for you. That's a really admirable way to go through your life.
