We have a society in which one of the greatest things you can do is a platform to see victim status and one of the qualifications for that is that you have these exquisitely tender feelings about things and sensibilities which are easily offended.
In the end you make your reputation and you have your success based upon...
The whole system of society tells you what to do.
The heart of the jealous knows the best and most satisfying love that of the other's bed where the rival perfects the lover's imperfections.