Once boys' and men's challenges are clear the question 'why now' quickly becomes 'why didn't we see this sooner?' The answer? Virtually every society that survived did so by socializing its sons to be disposable.
Companies like I.B.M. have offered women scholarships to study engineering...
The whole system of society tells you what to do.
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