Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him and to let him know that you trust him.
Nothing ever comes to one that is worth having except as a result of hard...
The betrayal of trust carries a heavy taboo.
I remind everyone: Whether you school them at home or send them to school you as a parent have the responsibility to make sure they learn and behave. Teachers and principals may help but parents are the ones who must accept responsibility.