I wish my parents hadn't made me feel that how I looked was linked to how much they loved me. But I do also see how hard it must be to see your child pile on the pounds and trust they'll find their own way back to a healthy weight.
Success in whatever form it takes is a tricky thing - once you've achieved...
The betrayal of trust carries a heavy taboo.
By all means marry. If you get a good wife you'll become happy if you get a bad one you'll become a philosopher.