I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours.
If I'd written all the truth I knew for the past ten years about 600 people...
Tell the truth work hard and come to dinner on time.
Daddy loves you but he smacks you and he can shout at you and smash things but Daddy still loves you. So when you get into a relationship with someone who does all of that why would it be unusual?