The truth may be out there but lies are inside your head.
I am certain no one sets out to be cruel but our treatment of the elderly...
Tell the truth work hard and come to dinner on time.
I found out about reviews early on. They're mostly written by sad men on bad afternoons. That's probably why I'm less angry than some writers who are so narcissistic they consider every line of every review even a thoughtful one as major treason.