I have a crusade against fondant also shortening. There's no reason why wedding cakes can't taste good if you know what you're doing.
When I celebrated my bar mitzvah there was no cake. Today there is no such...
Those are the men who will dance at your wedding.
What is sad for women of my generation is that they weren't supposed to work if they had families. What were they going to do when the children are grown - watch the raindrops coming down the window pane?