Men are allowed to have passion and commitment for their work... a woman is allowed that feeling for a man but not her work.
A man who graduated high in his class at Yale Law School and made partnership...
I don't think balance is something you get from someone else it's something...
Nearly all the powerful people of this age are unbelievers the best of them in doubt and misery the most in plodding hesitation doing as well as they can what practical work lies at hand.