Women must pay for everything. They do get more glory than men for comparable feats but they also get more notoriety when they crash.
There is so much that must be done in a civilized barbarism like war.
I don't think balance is something you get from someone else it's something...
But while mum and dad were incredibly caring it was also a very chaotic household where everyone fought about everything. So I know what it's like to internalize all that chaos.
